Wednesday, August 31, 2016

The Connecticut Forum's Religion in America 2016



The Connecticut Forum's Religion in America 2016 on September 29, 2016 kicks off the Forum's 2016-2017 season. I'm looking forward to a lively discussion on "The changing role [of religion] in our culture, politics and lives." It's great opportunity to listen, learn and grow.

Follow the link above to the Forum's website for more information about the panelists, and to purchase tickets.


Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com


Friday, August 19, 2016

Saving Children and Marines in Mogadishu

A Happy Day at Restore Hope Orphanage 1993. 

A scarlet, key-laden lanyard hung around Khadija Mohamud's neck. The gold lettering was unmistakable: United States Marine Corps. My question obvious; her answer emotional. Khadija's story quickly unfolded. "Two Marines were forgotten, left behind. I had to do what I had to do," Khadija said recounting her unhesitatingly selfless call to action in saving two U.S. Marines in war torn Mogadishu. I knew then that Khadija's story must be shared with others, many others.

Khadija and I met at Dar Al-Hijrah Islamic Center in Falls Church, VA in what she described as "such an unexpected circumstance." We were both among several chaperones guiding a "getting to know you" interfaith youth gathering. She for the Muslim youth of Dar Al-Hijrah, and I for thirty Granby, CT high school youth on a week long trip to Washington, DC, which focused on gaining perspective on Race, Religion, and Privilege.


Khadija and me at Dar Al-Hijrah, August 4, 2016

The trip, which is a whole other story, sponsored by First Congregational Church of Granby, purposefully took the Granby youth out of town to engage with Washington-area youth in collaborative activities ranging from a Black Lives Matter workshop to LBGTQ discussions to Aging-in-Place service projects with in-need elderly to the Holocaust Museum to a White House tour to a Muslim prayer service at the Capitol, and to the thoughtfully-planned meet, greet, and play with more than 50 youth from DAH Youth, and 20 more from ADAMS Center and The Young Leaders Institute. Intense, provocative, and enlightening, the week was a huge success.

Saving Children

The year 1991. The city Mogadishu. 

After 13 years in the United States pursuing her education and career as an accountant, and becoming a citizen, Khadija (known to some by her nickname "Lul", which means "Pearl") had returned home to Somalia for a short visit to check on the well being of her family. The short visit to help secure the safety of family and friends turned into an eight year life-changing mission in Mogadishu to save children whose lives were torn apart by the horrific combat raging throughout the city. 

Fighting had injured hundreds of children; many had lost their parents. Mothers desperately needed help for their children, their husbands killed in the fighting. Access to food and medicine was increasingly difficult, clinics were closing, and others were treacherous to reach.

Somali Child in Mogadishu

With her friends, Khadija responded to the crisis by organizing their grassroots Somali Relief and Development Organization, "a group of volunteer professional women who wanted to do something for the children of Mogadishu." An abandoned building was found, and a mother and childcare center established. Instantly, it was "providing medical care and food for 150 injured or malnourished children and mothers." But in November 1991, as the civil war exploded throughout the area, with rockets raining down, gunfire piercing the air, and looting rampant, "overnight 10 times more children came to our center." As medical supplies and food ran out death became routine. The images seen around the world were horrific.

Khadija, desperately seeking more help, returned to America to solicit aid in the U.S. and Canada. The Somali-Canadian community responded immediately arranging the first ton of medicines and first aid supplies to be shipped safely through international relief agencies and the United Nations. Khadija soon returned to Mogadishu. Her unflagging efforts led to an additional assignment. She was appointed as Feed the Children Program Officer in Mogadishu.

Khadija was saving children. Soon she would be saving two U.S. Marines. 

Saving Marines

The year 1993. The city Mogadishu. 

Khadija now was serving as Feed the Children International Country Director for Somalia, as well as managing the Restore Hope Orphanage in Mogadishu North "with well over 2,000 orphans, abandoned and needy children, ages 2 to 12."

Khadija's Feed the Children ID

In early October the Battle of Mogadishu was fought. It was the battle in which two U.S. UH-60 Black Hawk helicopters were shot down, a tragedy documented in the book Black Hawk Down: A Story of Modern War. The fighting resulted in thousands of Somali casualties, along with several U.S. soldiers dead and many more wounded. Later in October, even though the city remained extremely dangerous, a UN visit to the Restore Hope Orphanage proceeded as scheduled.

The following narrative is Khadija's recounting of saving two Marines as told to me: 
It was October 24, 1993. In celebration of United Nations Day, U.S. Navy Admiral Jonathan Howe, the Special Representative for Somalia to UN Secretary General Butros-Ghali was scheduled to visit the orphanage along with other dignitaries and high-ranking military officials from various countries. 
Security was tight due to the orphanage's location near the so called Green Line, a dangerous no man's land dividing Mogadishu, the capital city of Somalia into North and South between warring factions. 
That day, a large area around the orphanage compound was secured by the U.S. Marines and there were several armored military vehicles strategically positioned inside, outside and around the orphanage's compound.
A Somali Youth Approaching a Mogadishu Security Checkpoint
Inside the orphanage, a great deal of time before the arrival of Admiral Howe and his entourage, a unit of the U.S. Marines took position in several corners inside the building, first floor, second floor, entrances to second floor, on the roof, front and back entrances of the orphanage compound. There was a large contingent of media personnel from around the world. 
The visit lasted about 45 minutes. Guests toured the Center, interacting, playing, singing, and taking pictures with the children and staff. Then everyone departed. 
It was through our program that we, along with Feed the Children, provided everything for the children: food, medicine, clothing, education, recreational activities to keep them off the streets during the day where their would be role models were killing and looting. 
However, at the end of each day before nightfall, we released the children to their extended families.  We worked diligently to locate the children's closest kin and place them with relatives so that they would not be institutionalized, but grow up in a family environment. On top of that the security situation would not have permitted us to keep the children at the orphanage compound after dark. Clashes, shootings, mortar shelling and looting were the norm. It would have been strategically impossible to evacuate over 2,000 children. The consequences would have been devastating if fighting broke out. 
The sun was setting, it was getting dark. I was getting ready to close. I sent my guards to secure all gates and doors of the compound when I came to find out that two U.S. Marines were forgotten, left behind. 
My first thought was: "No, it is not possible."
I walked down to where they were positioned, I saw two very young soldiers, one black and one white, holding tight onto their weapons, seemingly alarmed. They were very young, I guess maybe between 19 and 21 years of age. 
I thought: "Oh my God! What now?" 
I went up to them and told them that everyone of their group had left, but in reassuring them I said to them: "Don't worry, I am American like you. These are my guards, and I promise no one will harm you. Come with me and I will take you to safety to the Italian Military base which is the closest." 
I felt they became a bit relaxed but they told me that they must follow rules and must stay where they were last known to be. 
Night was approaching. It was unsafe for me, too, to be trotting around. Mogadishu was in the hands of armed militia who took the city hostage. Throughout the night you would hear gunfire and random rockets being fired. There were security checkpoints set up by local police, however, in the darkness if anyone halted you to stop, you were doomed if you stopped, and you were doomed if you did not stop, because there were also some checkpoints set up by thugs for the purpose of looting and rape. In the darkness, with no electricity, you could not distinguish the good guys from the bad ones. So you do not stop, never. You take your chance of avoiding bullets raining down on you as you flee. 
The U.S. Military base was in Mogadishu South, we were in Mogadishu North. But I had to do what I had to do. 
I got my driver ready with my pick up truck, loaded the back with armed men, some of my security guards, and left for the Italian Military base, which was nearest to the orphanage. 
Needless to say that to approach any military base, day or night, was very dangerous. Fortunately my vehicle was easily identifiable with Feed the Children's flag and logo on the doors, plus they knew me. The gate opened and I drove in. I asked to see the General who was in charge of the base, presented to him the situation. Right away he summoned one of his captains, who with some soldiers, quickly got into an armored vehicle and followed me to the orphanage. 
Before we left the Italian Military base, the General communicated by radio, I believe first with the U.S. Military base in Mogadishu South, and then following instructions he radioed the head of the Nigerian Military Contingent, which was based at the old port of Mogadishu also not far from where we were. We headed there.
The Italian General tried to see if it was at all possible that the two Marines could be air lifted by helicopter back to their U.S. base in Mogadishu South. Usually airlifts were done by flying over the sea to avoid ground area. By flying over the Green Line there was the danger that militia would shoot rockets to bring the aircraft down. 
The head of the Nigerian Military expressed concern as there was a ban for airlifts at night, but said that they would stay in communication by radio with the U.S. Military base, and in the meantime the Nigerian base would host the two Marines for the night and take them to the U.S. base in the morning. And so it went.  
After I had secured them in the Nigerian's safe hands, it was my turn to try to get home safely. While all this is happening, I was expecting my son, my first born.  
I am grateful to God that He has given me the opportunity to do good. My faith teaches me that ".... If anyone saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of all mankind" (Quran, Chapter 5, Verse 32). I guess I got double of that. 
I would also add that the U.S. Marines adopted the orphanage, which was named after the UN Operations in Somalia: Operation Restore Hope. When we first occupied the building, which was an old Catholic private boarding school, and my elementary school as a child, the walls were riddled with bullet holes and marked with war related graffiti. The roof and the structural support were in pieces. U.S. Marines and Sailors began helping. They even shared their MREs (Meal, Ready-to-Eat) with the children, if we ran out of food. To honor their involvement, we painted the center with the colors of the U.S. Marines: GOLD and SCARLET. I hold them dear in a special spot in my heart. Semper Fidelis! 
It's been 23 years since that day and I always ask myself: "Where are those two Marines now? They must be in their late forties, fathers or even grandfathers. Would they remember me?" Who knows, but I wish I could know.

Epilogue

The situation deteriorated throughout Somalia in late 1993 and into 1994. Most U.S. troops were withdrawn in 1994, and completely by 1995.  Khadija recalled how the country fell back into chaos and renewed fighting between factions. As a way to arm themselves the local militias looted food convoys and exchanged food for weapons. Mogadishu's main seaport and airport fell into the hands of thugs and criminals. Ships could not dock at the port because rocket fire scared them away. "I stayed behind even after all foreign presence was gone, [even] while relief agencies left due to security reasons," she said. Foreigners were targeted for kidnapping for ransom.

Eventually, as food ran out and what security there was declined further, Feed the Children closed all programs in Somalia by the late 1990s. Khadija was relocated to the Feed the Children office in Nairobi, Kenya. "I continued to support some of the children in Mogadishu on my own, but however little, my assistance was not reaching them," she lamented.

For a couple of years Khadija worked as a Program Coordinator for another agency, and later as a Fundraiser/Project Proposal Writer for a Nairobi Catholic mission, the Diocese of Rumbek.

In 2003, Khadija returned to the United States, settling in Fairfax, Virginia. She resumed her career as an accountant, and, as she said, "a full-time mom to her children, Edoardo and Sarah," now 22 and 20, respectively.

"As far as for me," Khadija sighed, "I feel my mission was not complete."

Khadija did what she had to do in Mogadishu.

Khadija will continue to do what she has to do.

Khadija is a stonecatcher.




Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Source documents, photos and images from Khadija Mohamud; Don Shaw Jr.; CIA World Factbook; Defense Technical Center; and Amazon.com


Wednesday, July 20, 2016

"One. Two. Three. LIFT!"


"One. Two. Three. LIFT!"
On July 16, on an expertly prepared site ready for volunteers, hammers were in full swing building walls for a brand new Habitat for Humanity raised ranch under construction in Granby, CT. 

On Habitat site supervisor Stan's count, -- "One. Two. Three. LIFT!" -- and undaunted by the stifling heat and humidity, a volunteer crew of twelve from Granby's First Congregational and South Congregational churches raised the home's first wall. 

This house is Hartford Habitat's first rural build. Granby's town leadership is fully supportive. That's the way it is in Granby, my hometown.

First Congregational and South Congregational Crew 

Just before lunch break First Church member Ruth Rosebrooks, retired and revered Granby school teacher, whose generous long-time community volunteering includes stints with Habitat, paid the crew a visit to offer her heartfelt encouragement. She hammered home the first wall's final nails before we lifted it place.

Ruth Rosebrooks hitting the nail square on the head, as always.
The Granby Habitat house is now in full construction mode. The Granby homeowners-to-be are faithfully working to complete their construction sweat equity. Volunteer construction crews are being scheduled for the rest of the year offering their time and sweat in partnership.

Building affordable housing is not a heavy lift when a community lifts together.

"One. Two. Three. LIFT!"


This post was published by the Granby Drummer, August 29, 2016.

Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Photos by Don Shaw, Jr.


Friday, July 15, 2016

Indifference is Dangerous




Indifference is dangerous. 

Elie Wiesel's comments on the danger of indifference are timeless. His words are a powerful reminder of the evil of indifference. His words challenge our conscience to move from indifference to awareness and action, to take a stand. You can hear them in The Connecticut Forum's July 8, 2016, Video of the Week

History is replete with our inhumanity, our dark side, which all to often rises up targeting those whom we view as the other, the stranger, the not-of-my-kind. The other, the stranger, the not-of-my-kind are real people, not abstractions. Each has a story -- a personal story of a real life, filled the with the kinds of hopes and dreams most of us share in wanting to be accepted, and allowed to live in peace and pursue a purposeful life.

Wiesel knew the power of indifference. He knew the power of taking a stand against indifference. He lived through oppression aided by indifference. He survived oppression because many people spoke out, rejected the indifference of neutrality, and took a stand to fight oppression. We should take care to heed Wiesel's admonition. 

As quoted by the Forum from Wiesel's December 10, 1986, Nobel Prize acceptance speech

"We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. Sometimes we must interfere. When human lives are endangered, when human dignity is in jeopardy, national borders and sensitivities become irrelevant. Wherever men or women are persecuted because of their race, religion, or political views, that place must - at that moment - become the center of the universe."
Holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel died on July 2, 2016.  

Indifference is dangerous.


Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Saturday, June 18, 2016

World Refugee Day June 20

World Refugee Day Poster

June 20 is World Refugee Day. It is a day to listen and learn.  It is a day to speak out. It is a day to take a stand. It is a day to act.

The plight of refugees globally is horrific. It's an unconscionable and tragic reality for the more than 65 million people today who have been displaced forcibly worldwide.

With violence forcing "hundreds of families to flee each day, the UN Refugee Agency believes now is the time to show world leaders that the global public stands with refugees, and it will launch its #WithRefugees petition on June 20th to send a message to governments that they must work together and do their fair share for refugees."

To Act Globally on June 20: Sign the UN Refugee Agency's #WithRefugees petition. It will help "send a clear message to governments [worldwide] that they must act with solidarity and shared responsibility."

To Act Locally on June 20: Reach out to refugees who have made their way to your community. Check with your local refugee resettlement agencies and other public and private organizations to learn about activities and opportunities to support refugees in your community.

To Act Locally in Hartford, CT on June 20: Visit The Hartford Public Library. It offers an excellent opportunity to "get to know your newest neighbors. From Monday, June 20th through Thursday, June 23rd, from 12:30 - 2:00 p.m., members of Hartford's diverse refugee groups invite you to join them for a cup of tea and conversation at Hartford Public Library, Downtown."

Also visit The American Place on the Library's Main Floor, for a display of Andy Hart's photographs "featuring the rich cultural contributions new arrivals bring to [Hartford]," and the ArtWalk on the Third Floor featuring Marc-Yves Regis' Headstrong photographic exhibit of Haitian children, which reflects "the deep passion that Marc-Yves Regis feels for street vendors who carry Haiti’s economic burden on their heads. Despite their constant struggle with bone-crushing labor, their faces show a mixture of determination, pride, sorrow, fear and joy."

Photograph by Marc-Yves Regis


Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com



The Connecticut Forum: Bishop Gene Robinson on the Solidarity of the LGBTQ Community




In the wake of the horrific tragedy in Orlando, The Connecticut Forum's just released Video of the Week is timely and essential viewing.  The Forum's words quoted below speak for themselves. Please take a moment to read them. Then watch the video clip of Bishop Gene Robinson.

"Earlier this week a mass shooting was targeted at the LGBTQ community, in a space that was meant to be a place of celebration and safe haven. Our hearts are with all of those who lost friends or loved ones in this tragedy.

In this newly released clip, Bishop Gene Robinson, the first openly gay Bishop, talks about threats of violence directed at him and his family and the LGBTQ community in general, as well as the solidarity and strength of that community.

Robinson was joined on the panel by Dan Savage and Martina Navratilova, with Jonathan Capehart moderating. The Forum Being Gay took place on October 5, 2013 at The Connecticut Forum."




Don Shaw, Jr
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Pedaling Their Mission

Bike & Build cyclists cheered by greeters upon
arrival at First Congregational Church of Granby, CT,
June 7, 2016




"I see them! They're here! Bike & Build just arrived!"

Every June for more than ten years the Bike & Build Providence to Seattle Tour has overnighted at First Congregational Church of Granby, CT on it annual Providence to Seattle trip, one of its eight yearly cross-country cycling tours raising awareness for, and money to fund, critically needed affordable housing. It's a celebration the church looks forward to hosting every year.

Bike & Build, founded in 2002, has been pedaling its message for affordable housing ever since 2003. In its first 13 years Bike & Build’s cross-country tours have engaged 3,000 young adults in service who have delivered the affordable housing message, and have donated more than $4.5 million for the cause in the process. In 2015 alone, riders rode 1,021,000 combined miles, worked 25,700 hours building affordable homes en route, and awarded $637,311 in grants to organizations such as Habitat for Humanity,  Rebuilding Together, and many other affordable housing groups.

As its mission and vision state, "Through service-oriented cycling trips, Bike & Build benefits affordable housing and empowers young adults for a lifetime of service and civic engagement," and it "envisions future generations who are committed to a lifetime of civic engagement and who inspire individuals and communities to create fair, decent housing for all Americans."

The following photographs tell the story of Bike & Build's Providence to Seattle (P2S) 2016 tour stop at First Congregational Church, June 7-8, 2016. Check out the Bike & Build website for lots more details.

Enjoy the Ride!




Thrilled to get off the saddle!
Cooling off in the shade and resting weary legs.

Parking the van and trailer carrying clothes, equipment, and food.
The caption on the trailer says it all.
Riders showing off pictures from today's ride while munching on calorie replenishing snacks.
Off to the showers courtesy of the Farmington Valley YMCA,
and the Marquis of Granby Junior Ancient Fyfe & Drum Corps bus.
Chowing down on First Congregational Church's legendary annual B&B feast.
Brian Liss, executive director of the Farmington Valley YMCA, being congratulated by Rev. Dr. Ginny McDaniel of First Congregational Church, and Don Shaw, church member and member of Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity board, in recognition of the YMCA's many years of generously offering its showers to the cyclists.
After a good night's rest, up and at 'em early to get the bikes ready to roll June 8, 2016.
The pressure to get going.
Last minute treatment.
Mandatory morning briefing on the ride ahead. Today's destination: Kent, CT.
The reason they ride!
Group photo before mounting up.
Ready to lead cyclists to the Granby Habitat house under construction.

Bike & Build cyclists at the Granby Habitat house construction site,
which is right along the start of their route to Kent, CT.

Underway! Leaving the Granby Habitat house site. Onward to Kent. Enjoy the hills!!

Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Photographs by Don Shaw, Jr.
Tour map and Bike & Build information from its website.

Monday, June 6, 2016

Listen to the Heartbeat of Africa in Hartford

GhanaBeats Radio's Georges Annan-Kingsley
hosting this Good Times show which airs Saturdays from 12:00-2:00 p.m.

"Welcome to your greater Hartford African community radio, GhanaBeats Radio, broadcasting the heartbeat of Africa direct from our Bloomfield, Connecticut, USA studio."

Yes, you read it right: "from our Bloomfield, Connecticut, USA studio."

Georges Annan-Kingsley, an artist, author and teacher, and John Ackeifi, a computer engineer and entrepreneur, from Hartford and Bloomfield respectively, have teamed up to establish the first station specifically to serve the greater Hartford African community, with a mission of ensuring continuity of African culture and heritage to Africans who now call the USA home. Similarly, it serves to introduce the richness of African culture and history to the greater Hartford area, and what it can contribute to building bridges of understanding and acceptance in our diverse American society.

I visited the studio this past Saturday at Annan-Kingsley's invitation. He and I met through our work on the Asylum Hill Welcoming Committee, whose mission includes helping assimilate immigrants and refugees into the neighborhood.

Originally, broadcast from Accra, Ghana's capital, GhanaBeats Radio operation was moved by station owners Ackeifi and Pat Ackeifi, his wife, to their Bloomfield studio this year now that they live in Connecticut. What made the transition easy was that GhanaBeats Radio is an internet station, not available through an actual radio, but accessible globally via a computer. From Bloomfield the station still can be heard in Ghana, in fact it has listeners from around the world. I know this because while I was being interviewed by Annan-Kingsley on air, a listener texted Ackeifi from Germany.

Georges Annan Kingsley and John Ackeifi
founders of GhanaBeats Radio set up for Georges' radio program.

Annan-Kingsley's and Ackeifi's shared entrepreneurial spirit, complementary talents, and common Ghanaian roots made for a natural team. Before relocating to the United States, Annan-Kingsley was Assistant to the Cultural Attaché for the French Embassy in Ghana, and was teaching at the National Institute of Art, University of Cocody-Abidjan, Côte d'Ivoire. Ackeifi, a computer engineer and entrepreneur, earned his undergraduate and graduate degrees in the USA.

Broadcasts of joyous western and southern African music are GhanaBeats Radio's specialty. Shows are broadcast twenty-four hours a day, mostly prerecorded, but eight shows are hosted live by nine DJs, who can be heard at regularly scheduled times Friday, Saturday and Sunday. The hosts, whose roots are  from Ghana, Togo, and Côte d'Ivoire, broadcast in English, French, or Ghanian languages, with plans to introduce Swahili very soon. The music is interspersed with local public service announcements and information about Hartford area cultural events. Near term plans are to increase public service content, and then longer term begin limited news programming.

Listening to GhanaBeats' engaging music is comforting and uplifting, although, as I mentioned to Ackeifi and Annan-Kingsley, my lack of relevant language skills prevents me from enjoying the lyrics -- we all laughed -- "the words are all good" they said.

Listen for yourself. It's all good.




Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Photos by Don Shaw, Jr.

Saturday, June 4, 2016

It All Started with a Gingerbread House




It all started with a gingerbread house when "Chef Paul," Bloomfield Public Schools culinary arts instructor, and his students competed in Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity's Gingerbread Build fundraiser a few years ago. It was then that he heard Habitat would be building several affordable homes in Bloomfield. An idea began to percolate.  

Building a holiday gingerbread house is fun, even tasty. But what if the students could actually fund and build a real house, an affordable Habitat home. If so, the students truly would be living up to the school system's motto "Raising the Bar is Taking us Far" -- its mission for maximizing student achievement.

Combining enthusiastic school district support, Habitat's know-how, and student-led creative fundraising, Chef Paul's idea has been formulated into a winning recipe for building a safe, decent and affordable house in Bloomfield rightly named "The House that Students Built." This Energy Star-rated single-family home will be built with 85% volunteer labor.

Bloomfield Public Schools' first-of-a-kind partnership with Hartford Habitat to build an affordable home is a district-wide initiative combining education, social awareness, goal setting and student-engagement focused on achieving the school system's mission to be a high-performing district.  By creating "a positive climate, an expectation of competitive academic achievement and a culture of meaningful parent and community engagement" Bloomfield school programs are specifically geared toward enabling student success. 

A critical piece in making this partnership a true community endeavor is that the Town of Bloomfield, in support of the school plan, donated the property at 89 East Morningside Street where the house will be built. The town's moderate homeownership rate and modest family income levels make the East Morningside Street neighborhood an ideal site for this project. Habitat already has built nine homes in Bloomfield—two in 2002, one in 2006 and six in 2014 with the town's full support.

This initiative is an excellent example of how student service learning projects should work. Well-designed projects result in students realizing increased academic achievement. Engaging students in meaningful service to their schools and communities allows them to apply academic skills to solving real-world issues, linking established learning objectives with genuine needs. Students lead the process, supported by adult partners, and apply critical thinking and problem-solving skills to community concerns such as poverty housing, homelessness, and neighborhood revitalization.

To get a flavor of the excitement building in Bloomfield, take a few minutes to listen to this brief clip of legendary Bloomfield-based radio talk show host and huge Habitat fan Brad Davis's interview with Chef Paul Waszkelewicz, Stacey McCann (Community Relations, Bloomfield Public Schools), and Marie McNamara (Individual Engagement Manager, Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity).

How will students, parents and staff volunteer?
  • Students ages 16 and above, along with parents/staff, are invited to volunteer at the Habitat ReStore located at 500 Cottage Grove Road, Bloomfield, CT. 
  • Volunteers 16 and above (must be 18 and over to use power tools) are welcome to form teams of up to 10 people to come out to assist in building homes on site. 
  • Students will be actively engaged in raising funds through creating social media funding pages,  requesting corporate and individual sponsorships, as well as creating other fundraiser events. 
While the advocacy, volunteering and fundraising portions of this initiative begin this month, the construction began in the spring of 2016, with completion in 2017. 

Join the Celebration!

The Bloomfield community is invited to join Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity and Bloomfield Public Schools to celebrate the kick-off of construction on "The House that Students Built" with an on-site Beam Signing at 1:00 pm on Tuesday, June 21, at 89 East Morningside Street, Bloomfield. 

See you there!

For details about the Bloomfield School System's partnership with Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity and other community engagement programs, as well as how to contribute or get involved, please contact Stacey McCann, Community Relations, at Bloomfield Public Schools, or Marie McNamara, at Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity.


Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com






Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Memorial Day

Normandy American Cemetery, Colleville-sur-Mer, Normandy, France


Normandy American Cemetery, Colleville-sur-Mer, Normandy, France


  Sainte-Mère-Église: stained glass window in village chapel depicting the landing of the paratroopers.


Normandy American Cemetery, Colleville-sur-Mer, Normandy, France

On Memorial Day one year ago, with sunset approaching, my wife Peggy and I quietly walked among the thousands of brilliant white headstones in the Normandy American Cemetery in Colleville-sur-Mer, Normandy, France. Emotions swelled. 

We arrived at the cemetery following a day-long tour of the Normandy coast where American soldiers and sailors, among whom were family elders, stormed Utah and Omaha beaches, and clawed up Pointe-du-Hoc, on D-Day, June 6, 1944, while allies Great Britain and Canada assaulted Gold, Juno, and Sword beaches. Craters carved by naval bombardment on the bluffs above the beach cliffs, along with the ruins of bunkers and cannon emplacements, remain as silent memorials that tell of a history we must never forget.

As the lowering sun cast somber shadows across the cemetery, we paused in reverence as a bugle gracefully sounded taps, and the Stars and Stripes slowly descended to rest for the night. Emotions swelled.

In solemn gratitude on Memorial Day we remember and honor the men and women who dutifully served our nation throughout its history in hopes of keeping our country and the world safe and free from tyrants and tyranny.

Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com

Photographs by Don Shaw, Jr.

Thursday, May 12, 2016

"Love That Boy"



"I hope I don't let you down, Dad," whispered Tyler Fournier to his father as they inched forward in the line to meet President Obama.

Tyler was 13 then. Tyler has Asperger Syndrome.

Ron Fournier's book, Love That Boy, is a passionate, honest and enlightened account of his struggle to accept and embrace Tyler's differences -- from the boy he hoped for to the gift of the one he has.

As Fournier and Tyler embarked on their series of road trips to bond and afford Tyler "real-world experience to learn how to socialize," Fournier's personal mission was "to learn to love my boy for who he was, rather than what I wanted him to be." As he admits, "The original sin of parenting is the baggage we drag into it."

The origin the road trips unwittingly began in 2003 when Tyler accompanied Fournier, a departing White House correspondent, to a courtesy visit with President George W. Bush. Fournier was anxious and unsettled that Tyler, then just five years old, would  embarrass him in front of Bush. Yet as Fournier poignantly recounts the meeting, "[Tyler] was, in a word, quirky. But the president was enchanted."

As Fournier and Tyler "were walking out of the Oval Office... Bush grabbed me by the elbow. 'Love that boy' he said, holding my eyes. I thought I understood what he meant. I didn't. It took me years to understand."

This must-read book shares a story to which all parents and child caregivers should give heed in raising not just an atypical child, but every child.

I first heard about Love That Boy, during NPR's Scott Simon's emotional interview with Fournier. Give it a listen. It's well worth the 9 minutes, 15 seconds. Then read the book.


Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com



Thursday, May 5, 2016

"Stigmatized"





Dr. Reza Mansoor is my friend. He is a friend to many. He opens paths. He clears paths. He is a stonecatcher. 

I first met Reza several years ago while building Habitat for Humanity homes in Hartford. He was on the Muslim Coalition of Connecticut (MCCT) crew. The assembled construction crews were part of Hartford Habitat's interfaith collaborations designed to bring diverse faith communities together in side-by-side unity to build homes for families in need of simple, decent places to live.

In the intervening years since we met, our paths have intersected several times: on more Habitat builds, at a Hartford shelter's kitchen when my church volunteered with the MCCT team, and at numerous interfaith gatherings, where many people of diverse religious backgrounds have come together to learn from each other, and to share their common calling to love and serve their neighbors.

Dr. Mansoor has just published a book worthy of our attention. "Stigmatized: From 9/11 to Trump and Beyond, An American Muslim Journey".  Check out the book's website.

The following excerpts from testimonials found on the website are persuasive:

"In his recent work, Dr. Reza Mansoor describes the role of his Muslim brethren in the building of our nation... Those who revere Islam have as much to do with America's success as do Protestants, Catholics, Jews, Hindus, or any other religious sect...Sameness did not build America. Difference did...What makes us brothers is our love of America. This is what Dr. Mansoor's book celebrates."
Governor Lowell P. Weicker
Former Governor, 

State of Connecticut

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"This is a compelling and down to earth description of the experience of being a normal American citizen who is Muslim, seeking to practice his faith in post 9/11 USA, in which overt acts of hatred and the willful mis-understanding of Islam on the part of some, have been mixed with acts of friendship and solidarity on the part of others. Dr Mansoor's response to his experience within the Muslim community has been one that seeks in multiple ways to strengthen its identity and its institutions within the USA."
Dr. Heidi Hadsell
President,
Hartford Seminary

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"What I really like about this book is Dr. Reza doesnʼt just identify the problems that exist, he gives examples of successful strategies that can be used to eliminate those problems. He gives the reader countless stories about the great work that continues to be done in Connecticut by those Muslims who have made it their business to be pro-active! Muslims, who have been called to action to improve the image of the Muslims, not by talking or being seen in nicely placed photo ops, but by getting involved with issues that effect and concern the communities."
Imam Dr. Salahuddin M. Muhammad
Imam Emeritus – Newburgh masjid
Newburgh, New York.

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"This book is an important book for all those who yearn to see the true face of Islam, but also, it's a book that will inspire us to open the doors of our own faith communities to work together with others to make this world a better and more peaceful place for our children."
Rev. David W. Good
Minister Emeritus
The First Congregational Church of Old Lyme

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"Into this climate of fear and bigotry stepped many heroes: ordinary Muslims who reclaimed the voice of Islam and their interfaith partners who stood beside them for the common good. In his memoir, Reza Mansoor tells the compelling story of his community and how they faced these challenges together."
Dr. Ingrid Mattson,
Past President,
Islamic Society of North America

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"You feel like you are sitting very close to Reza as he is sharing his experiences of what it means to be a Muslim in the US today...It is something worth reflecting on and to take to heart, when Reza writes about those who once left dictatorial regimes and oppression for the dream of the freedom of the USA and now increasingly see how the US...is becoming more and more like the states the immigrants and refugees once fled from.

But this book...is also a call to Muslims in the US to refuse being defined by the other...a call to Muslims to contribute creatively to open houses for new exchanges, new alliances and networks with people of different faiths, prepared to work together for a plural society, where respect for the other is a common value."
Rev. Dr. Hans Ucko,
Former Program Secretary for Interreligious Relations and Dialogue
World Council of Churches,
Geneva.

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"While the lens through which we understand the Middle East and its tragic modern politics are not always the same, we must always be open to each other's narrative. It will only be the mutual hope and confidence that arises out of the commonalities of our faith traditions---the idea that justice and peace are not ours to impose, but are Divine gifts and imperatives---that will help us overcome human antipathy toward the "other," someone different."
Rabbi Herbert Brockman, PhD
Congregation Mishkan Israel
Lecturer, Yale Divinity School
New Haven, CT




Don Shaw, Jr.
Writer and Editor
RedTruckStonecatcher.com